{"id":2022,"date":"2015-12-02T18:28:58","date_gmt":"2015-12-02T18:28:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.mops.org\/?p=2022"},"modified":"2015-12-02T18:28:58","modified_gmt":"2015-12-02T18:28:58","slug":"when-you-dont-feel-like-celebrating-lavishly","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.themom.co\/fr\/when-you-dont-feel-like-celebrating-lavishly\/","title":{"rendered":"When You Don\u2019t Feel Like Celebrating Lavishly"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>It comes around once a year. This season of overscheduling, overspending, overwhelming expectations. It\u2019s called Christmas. And oh my word have I had years when I haven\u2019t wanted to push through. When I\u2019ve braced myself to survive instead of relished in the lovely the season has to offer.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, when we think about Celebrate Lavishly, we think of joyful, over-the-top parties and gifts. At least I do. I\u2019ve thought things like, \u201cHow will we ever afford gifts?\u201d or \u201cI can\u2019t pretend like everything\u2019s okay, but I don\u2019t want to be the holiday Debbie Downer\u201d or simply, \u201cI just can\u2019t.\u201d The reality is Christmas can be just plain hard. Because we feel alone, broke, depressed, angry. There are years when we don\u2019t feel like celebrating.<\/p>\n<p>Just as this holiday comes around once a year, so does my annual epiphany. It\u2019s really a remembrance of why we mark this day, this baby being born. And it usually involves me listening to my favorite Christmas carol. Because right there tucked in the lyrics of\u00a0<i>O Holy Night<\/i>, are these words:<\/p>\n<p><i>\u201c<\/i><i>Long lay the world in sin and error pining<br \/>\nTill he appeared<br \/>\nAnd the soul felt its worth<br \/>\nThe thrill of hope<br \/>\nThe weary world rejoices<br \/>\nFor yonder breaks a new and glorious morn\u201d<\/i><\/p>\n<p><i>The weary world rejoices.<\/i>\u00a0Yes, weary! I have been, I often am. Weary from lack of sleep, but also weary from the heartache all around me. I\u2019m reminded that Christmas is actually for these dark years, an annual marker that there is hope. It comes around whether we\u2019re feeling it or not. And in our weariness we rejoice. We celebrate.<\/p>\n<p><i>And the soul felt its worth.<\/i>\u00a0Because this baby entering the story changes everything. We catch a glimmer every Christmas of God\u2019s demonstration of love through a baby. Motherhood has shown me God\u2019s love through my children, but this baby is different. He is for\u00a0<strong>all<\/strong>\u00a0of us. He is our\u00a0<i>thrill of hope<\/i>. Our ambassador of love, meant for each of us.\u00a0<i>That<\/i>\u00a0is lavish. Over-the-top in all kinds of ways.<\/p>\n<p>And this weary mom rejoices.<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"left alignleft\" title=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/www.mops.org\/images\/cms_images\/alex-2.jpg\" alt=\"\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Alexandra Kuykendall<\/strong><br \/>\nAs a mom to four girls, ages 3 to 12, Alexandra Kuykendall\u2019s days are spent washing dishes, driving to and from different schools and trying to find a better solution to the laundry dilemma. She writes to capture the places where motherhood meets everyday life to remember the small, yet significant moments in the midst of the blur. She is the author of\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/mops.christianbook.com\/the-artists-daughter-a-memoir\/alexandra-kuykendall\/9780800722050\/pd\/722050\/1345168016?event=HPF1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><em>The Artist\u2019s Daughter, A Memoir<\/em>\u00a0<\/a>, a contributor to this year\u2019s Be you, Bravely, An Experiment in Courage and acts as the Specialty Content Editor for MOPS International. A city girl at heart, she makes her home in the shadow of downtown Denver. You can read more of Alex\u2019s everyday thoughts and connect with her at\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/alexandrakuykendall.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">AlexandraKuykendall.com<\/a>.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It comes around once a year. This season of overscheduling, overspending, overwhelming expectations. It\u2019s called Christmas. And oh my word have I had years when I haven\u2019t wanted to push through. 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