{"id":605,"date":"2015-05-07T13:49:55","date_gmt":"2015-05-07T13:49:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.mops.org\/2015\/05\/07\/routines-are-important\/"},"modified":"2015-05-07T13:49:55","modified_gmt":"2015-05-07T13:49:55","slug":"routines-are-important","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.themom.co\/fr\/routines-are-important\/","title":{"rendered":"Routines Are Important"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>for Calmer Brains and for Families<\/p>\n<p>Did you know the brains of children really like routines \u2026 and do not like chaos? Predictability is comforting.<\/p>\n<p>Mornings can be a trying time for families because they can lack that comforting predictability. As a caring parent, you have the challenge of trying to get a lot accomplished in a short amount of time and want to leave home with everyone in a positive mood, ready for learning &#8212; and all wearing shoes!<\/p>\n<p>Consistent routines happening in nearly the same way each day, provide a sense of predictability for young children. The brain feels comfortable and safe when it knows what to expect next. To establish a consistent routine, understanding children\u2019s brains and trying some of the following tips, you will be able to more easily reach this goal.<\/p>\n<p><strong>TIPS<\/strong><\/p>\n<h3>1. Set a schedule.<\/h3>\n<p>When children know what happens first, next and last, it reduces the need for you to give constant reminders. Children become more self-directed as a result of an established routine.<\/p>\n<h3>2.Start the routine with a healthy breakfast.<\/h3>\n<p>Eating a well-balanced breakfast including adequate amounts of protein provides the brain with the nutrients to function well. Research shows children who eat a healthy breakfast a have a more stable mood throughout the day. Eating sugary cereal, doughnuts or sweetened juices will result in the brain needing food again only 30 minutes later. The brain then feels stress and releases stress chemicals. As a result a child may experience feelings of agitation, aggression and anxiety. Young developing brains do not yet know how to control all of these feelings. This is why it is called, \u201cout of control\u201d behavior.<\/p>\n<h3>3.Ensure everyone has had enough sleep.<\/h3>\n<p>Sleep enhances cognitive functioning and influences moods. Having enough sleep contributes to a more positive mood. When the brain lacks the sleep it needs, brain systems become out of balance. Children\u2019s (and adult) brains become more easily agitated when sleep deprived.<\/p>\n<h3>4.Do all you can to keep bedtime and bedtime routines as consistent as possible.<\/h3>\n<p>Provide calm activities like reading a book, giving a massage, taking a warm bath, or listening to soothing music as part of the bedtime routine. Eliminate watching television or using other electronics with bright lights prior to bedtime routines. Provide \u201cbrain calming\u201d foods as a bedtime snack such as warm milk, a banana, toast with almond butter or oatmeal with a bit of peanut butter added.<img decoding=\"async\" class=\"center\" title=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/www.mops.org\/images\/cms_images\/routines-are-important-1.jpg&quot; \/&gt;&lt;\/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Realize your child doesn\u2019t have a motivation to get out of the house quickly. A child\u2019s brain prefers to play, have fun and to spend time with you. Your mature brain has the ability to override your desires to sit and have another cup of coffee, read the paper, take a walk, etc. (Well, most days anyway!)&lt;\/p&gt;&lt;h3&gt;5.Use games to help motivate children.&lt;\/h3&gt;&lt;p&gt;These also create a fun time spent together before having to separate for the day.&lt;\/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;i&gt;Game Example: &lt;\/i&gt;&lt;strong&gt;STOP AND GO&lt;\/strong&gt;&lt;\/p&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;line-height: 1.6;&quot;&gt;Have your child start to get dressed, saying, \u201cGo.\u201d&lt;\/span&gt;&lt;\/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;line-height: 1.6;&quot;&gt;Tell the child to keep going until you say, \u201cStop.\u201d&lt;\/span&gt;&lt;\/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;line-height: 1.6;&quot;&gt;Repeat this with varied long and short and long periods of time getting dressed.&lt;\/span&gt;&lt;\/li&gt;&lt;\/ul&gt;&lt;h3&gt;6.Turn on upbeat and fun music.&lt;\/h3&gt;&lt;p&gt;Encourage your child to finish dressing by the time a song ends.&lt;\/p&gt;&lt;h3&gt;7.Use empathizing statements with an understanding tone of voice.&lt;\/h3&gt;&lt;p&gt;Such as, \u201cI know, sometimes you don\u2019t like to get going early.\u201d Or \u201cI understand how much you would rather be playing right now.\u201d Sometimes just knowing someone else recognizes feelings, helps a child cope.&lt;\/p&gt;&lt;h3&gt;8.Provide choices.&lt;\/h3&gt;&lt;p&gt;When children are given options and are more directly involved in the activity, this results in more cooperation. For example: Ask, \u201cWould you like to brush your teeth or comb your hair first?\u201d&lt;\/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Children\u2019s brains pick up on emotional atmosphere very quickly \u2026 And react to your stress level. Reduced levels of stress lead to better memory, better problem solving, and increased ability to pay attention.&lt;\/p&gt;&lt;hr \/&gt;&lt;p&gt;Join us on May 21st, noon MT, on&lt;a href=&quot;http:\/\/www.mops.org\/lets-talk-darling&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Let\u2019s Talk, Darling&lt;\/a&gt;to learn more about brain development and the importance of routines or sign-up for Happy Family\" alt=\"\" \/>Generation Happy community. Tweet with Happy Family that same evening from 6-7pm MT using #happychat to continue the conversation.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/happyfamilybrands.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Happy Family<\/a>is giving away a Snack Happy gift set. 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