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photo credit: Tiffany King<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

I love to cook, and for the past 10 years I\u2019ve cultivated a business by writing recipes and meal plans for busy families like mine. Recently, I found myself in the kitchen on a Saturday afternoon enjoying putting together a delicious meal of salmon on the grill, pasta salad full of summer veggies, and a blueberry crisp. My daughter and son-in-law came to enjoy the meal with us, and afterward we all raved about the meal. I truly relish those moments in the kitchen when I have time to breathe and take joy in the art of cooking.<\/p>\n

To be honest, I don\u2019t always feel passionate about making weeknight dinners. Last summer I was in the depths of writing my new cookbook Eat At Home Tonight<\/em><\/a>, and I cooked hundreds of test recipes. Some of it was fun, and the whole family enjoyed recipe testing with me. But the sheer volume of dinners was exhausting. I was burned out.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t need to have written a cookbook to understand the feeling of burnout that comes from making dinner. Every. Single. Night.<\/p>\n

There are many times in my life that I did not feel passionate about scrounging in the kitchen to conjure up a meal out of (almost) nothing for our family. Looking back, I\u2019m glad I didn\u2019t give up. I\u2019m glad I didn\u2019t stop cooking because of the lack of passion I felt about making spaghetti for four kids and a hungry husband.<\/p>\n

What I found passion in was what those dinners led to in the long run: spending time with my family, building strong bonds with my children, and having great talks with my husband (even if it is over washing dishes or chopping onions). By making dinner most every night for the last 30 years, I\u2019ve been able to carve a sacred space out of our busy lives so we can reconnect, share life and enjoy the company of others.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re stuck in a rut, remember that passion ebbs and flows. If you\u2019re feeling burned out, take a break! Let the kids fend for themselves with cereal for a few nights (they\u2019ll be fine). If you\u2019re feeling bored with the task, maybe mix it up. Try a new recipe. Maybe your spouse or kids can get involved too!<\/p>\n

Above all, remind yourself why<\/em> you cook to begin with. You might not be passionate about putting food in the slow cooker. Few people are. That\u2019s OK! But gathering your family around the dinner table night after night will give you memories and bonds that will last a lifetime. I still make dinner at about 6 o\u2019clock every night. Now that two of my children are married, one is in college and the youngest is nearly 16, many nights it\u2019s just my husband, Jim, and I. That said, we\u2019re frequently (and happily) surprised when one of our older kids or kids-in-law stops by for a bite to eat.<\/p>\n

For the days I don\u2019t feel like making dinner, I think about the joy it brings me to have my kids coming around to spend time (and have a little something to eat).<\/p>\n

Try out a new recipe that your family will love. These enchilada melts are so fast and easy, there will be plenty of time for the part of dinner that we\u2019re most passionate about:\u00a0Eating with our families!<\/p>\n

Chicken Enchilada Melt Sub<\/strong><\/span> (serves 6)<\/em><\/p>\n