{"id":9759,"date":"2020-03-09T13:47:10","date_gmt":"2020-03-09T19:47:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.mops.org\/?p=9759"},"modified":"2024-03-09T16:26:48","modified_gmt":"2024-03-09T16:26:48","slug":"how-to-deal-with-toddler-tantrums","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.themom.co\/fr\/how-to-deal-with-toddler-tantrums\/","title":{"rendered":"How To Deal With Toddler Tantrums"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Helpful tips on how to healthily manage your toddler\u2019s tantrums: <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Every mom knows a toddler tantrum can happen in the blink of an eye. One minute he is smiling, laughing and telling you \u201cyou\u2019re the best mom in the world,\u201d then in a nanosecond, he is melting down in the middle of the grocery aisle because you said \u201cno\u201d to the sugar cereal. Enter anxiety and embarrassment for mom. Don\u2019t worry Mama, there are ways to ease this stressful moment.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Breathe. <\/strong>Take a deep breath. Then another. Your posture and tone does play a part in whether or not his irrational meltdown is going to diminish or escalate. Don\u2019t match his stress level. Check out this article on the <a href=\"https:\/\/blog.mops.org\/toddler-tantrums-list-dos-donts\/?gclid=EAIaIQobChMIy_fa7q_S5wIVBdvACh3-kwD4EAAYASAAEgLJI_D_BwE\">do\u2019s and don\u2019ts<\/a> of managing tantrums.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Be confident in your parenting. <\/strong>Don\u2019t let the stress of what other people think influence your reaction to the tantrum. Proceed to respond with the plan you have set in place. Even if it means you\u2019re in the grocery aisle for 20 minutes. Enduring the stares is tough, but committing to the solution that works for you and your child is worth it.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Determine the cause. <\/strong>It\u2019s crucial to <a href=\"https:\/\/childmind.org\/article\/breaking-behavior-code\/\">understand the triggers.<\/a> Is she frustrated because you can\u2019t understand her, does she want something or is she tired, hungry, etc \u2026? You may not be able to know exactly what is setting off this little person\u2019s world, but whatever she is feeling is real to her. Get on her level, look her in the eyes, and show her you care about what she does.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Give consequences. <\/strong>Learn your child. Talk to your parenting partner on what you feel is best as a <a href=\"https:\/\/raisingchildren.net.au\/school-age\/behaviour\/rules-consequences\/consequences\">consequence<\/a> for tantrums you feel are outright defiance, be consistent. 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