{"id":9888,"date":"2020-03-30T07:09:56","date_gmt":"2020-03-30T13:09:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.mops.org\/?p=9888"},"modified":"2020-03-30T07:09:56","modified_gmt":"2020-03-30T13:09:56","slug":"tips-for-getting-through-survival-mode","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.themom.co\/fr\/tips-for-getting-through-survival-mode\/","title":{"rendered":"Tips for Getting Through &#8220;Survival Mode&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>If your home just turned into a full-time office for two, a school for reluctant and messy kids who miss their friends, and a live-in chef and cleaner wasn&#8217;t part of the deal, then something has to give, no?<\/p>\n<p>And what if you were struggling with anxiety or fighting off depression before this? Even if you weren\u2019t, this is a big deal and you deserve to create some space to process your emotions around it. Just a break.<\/p>\n<p>Here\u2019s how to truly let go and find some peace during a time of \u201csurvival only.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Within each of us, we have a bunch of rules in our heads about how we would prefer to live and what daily success means, our partner has another version, our parents had theirs, and society has a bunch of \u201cshoulds\u201d sprinkled on top just for fun.<\/p>\n<p>Here\u2019s the thing though my Love, this is your life. You can do whatever you want. For real.<\/p>\n<p>We all experience \u201csurvival only\u201d times of our lives, and this is for sure one of them.<\/p>\n<p>You know you are in one when your heart hurts, your brain is melting and you want to crawl under the covers for a while or move dimensions.<\/p>\n<p>This too shall pass, and when it does you can ramp up again and live your best life according to that circumstance.<\/p>\n<p>For now though, be kind to yourself and cross some things off that to-do list, and have fun doing it \u2013 no guilt!<\/p>\n<p>There are no rules here, this is a truly personal thing.<\/p>\n<p>For the next week I will:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Do one thing that makes me happy every day, even if it makes no sense.<\/li>\n<li>Accept less work effort from my kids; they are struggling\/adapting too.<\/li>\n<li>Close doors on rooms I release myself from cleaning during this time.<\/li>\n<li>Make a request for help from someone.<\/li>\n<li>Reach out to support others. Seek connection.<\/li>\n<li>Hide the vacuum.<\/li>\n<li>Only cook and do dishes.<\/li>\n<li>Stick my hair together with dry shampoo and put it up.<\/li>\n<li>Declare kitchen as \u201cself-serve.\u201d Help yourselves!<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Tips:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Discern what taking it down a level might look like for you. Evaluate if it adds or decreases stress to you in making that change.<\/li>\n<li>If maintaining a higher standard is coming from pleasing others, notice that and evaluate accordingly. (Note: YOU matter.)<\/li>\n<li>Pray\/meditate\/take walks in nature to gain perspective. Ask for spiritual support.<\/li>\n<li>Love yourself so fiercely that once you have a vision of what this could look like, speak up for it and say, \u201cand so it is.\u201d<\/li>\n<li>Your core values, when boiled down, most likely don\u2019t include many \u201cto-dos\u201d to execute. They are typically ways of \u201cbeing\u201d (loving, kindness etc.).<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>So consider giving yourself a break AND allow yourself to feel good about it. Getting intentional relieves guilt.<\/p>\n<p>You are divinely supported and loved. You are enough regardless of how you handle this challenging time, so what do you want and need this next week to look like?<\/p>\n<p>You deserve to make whatever that is happen for yourself.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p><strong><em>Joanna Peters<\/em><\/strong> runs <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/soulwearywomen\/\">&#8220;Soul Weary Women&#8221;\u00a0FB page<\/a>. 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